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I’m leaving a marriage where I was mid-maintenance. I drank the equality tea and ended up doing EVERYTHING! Bringing home the bacon, cooking it, cleaning up, and majority of the child-rearing. That silent resentment crept up and tick-tick-boom! I loved having a family but carrying all of that was not my cup of tea. I love my career and love nurturing my family BUT I require maintenance that allows me to be the natural nurturer that I am and be feminine. I can keep a house but need help in my mate, child, and an outside cleaner every now and then. I’m learning SO much about the inner conflict I felt in my romantic relationships.
I always felt this way! I’ve been married for 18 years and it is true. The resentment has taken over. Truth on top of truth!
What if a woman still wants to work but not help with bills? Just save buy groceries, decide for the home, invest in her looks etc.
I recently got out of a 3 year relationship that had me completely low maintenance. He got me by showing me that he was a provider and protector and he didn’t want me working. Long story short it was all a lie and a trap I lost everything I had. I’m now single with two children however I am at peace with my self, leveling up, back in my bag and now I’ve found this YouTube channel. A dusty can’t even speak to me or I’m calling 911. Hypergamy me please!!
Im taking all of this in at 19. I REFUSE to be any less than a hypergamous high-maintenance woman when i get married!
Chloe! Keep it up! I've tried to inform my sisters, but it falls on deaf ears. They need to hear ir from other women. I will share your channel with the women in my life
I know so many women at my work who provide for their men. These women are in their 30’s and think it’s the norm to help support their men.
Even with the ultimate pick me mama and grade D dusty daddy, I have never fallen into this trap. They provided a great example of what NOT to do!
I love your videos! I have been out of a 50/50 relationship, living together situation now for 2 years and I feel so dumb when I think of how I devalued myself and thought it was acceptable. We had so many issues and he turned abusive and I realize it was because he was broke, lazy and knew he was not the man of the house. His parents and family disrespected me constantly thinking he was the only one paying the household and bills. Never again! I am now living alone, and free to date and only deal with men with careers who understand that men who are but older than me and/or do not mind to step in to that provider role. Men are embarrassed when they know their woman is their equal. As a woman you become bitter when you hear your girlfriends bragging about all the stuff their man does for them and that they work by choice or only take care of food. I am glad I learned this lesson early on in my 20s and can never repeat the same mistake! As women, we are the trophy and we can never be equal because at the end of the day, you end up taking care of the home, bearing the children, losing your body sometimes for it, cooking, cleaning and laundry! Like when I get married and have kids I def want a man who can provide for our family because I do not want strangers raising our children! I am a beautiful and educated woman and I know my worth now!! Never again! Good for those who it works for but to each is own and I love your videos!!
Wow this is my mother and she’s an absolute knock out but that nice ish… and she has undoubtedly passed it down
For the people in the comments who are saying gold diggers are smart
I thought a gold digger, usually a woman , (can also be a man) was someone who was with a partner with the main reason which is monetary gain. So I don't know how it's smart for a gold digger to use some one for money.
I am not saying that a man shouldn't provide for his household and family because that's his duty coming from a Christian perspective, but what is in it for you if there is no love in a relationship. Especially if you don't love the man or he doesn't love you. Isn't that still living an unhappy life?? Or did the message fly above my head??
I'm triggered 😤 but it's ok lol this explains allot especially since I'm now divorced, I was the mid maintenance woman for 11 years. My respect declined for my ex husband for sure where I stopped caring about his concerns. But im happy its over thank hank you for your channel
I am thinking of being a kind of medium maintenance women until I get married and have kids. Then he has to provide. Before he should pay for restaurants and on vacations more than 50%. Is that also okay.. 🤔
I believe in 50/50 in house chores, I am not a maid, servant or slave for my family. I'm not here to just clean up after everyone else's mess. I also don't mind contributing to the shopping and other smaller bills because there are just not enough rich men to go around.
Oh that video was for me!!! I’m sadly in agreement!
Not triggered thoughts 😩🤣🤣
What do you say to women who argue and argue about women having their own and shouldn’t depend on a man. I got into a debate about this on Facebook and she was exactly how you explain us bitter, and defensive very masculine. I want to start living this hypergamous lifestyle how do I begin?
Accurate omg yes.
Uh are great
100%
Provide +tax . Love that 😂😂😍
is this me.. omygawd yes
Lord this is me. It left me with everything dumped in my lap.
I feel like the main value and thought this lifestyle is offering men and women, is to experience each other as our opposites. With the Male holding his divine maculine energy/principle/ nature, as his gold offering, and the female holding her divine feminine energy/principle as her gold offering to the Unions, is what blesses each other to experience the fullness of each others differences. I love that. Something I don't think very many women or men have truly experienced. Love your channel and the understandings.
I just have to find an evolved man who is worthy of being a leader and a provider. Someone who will be happy to provide, not bitter, unfaithful, bored, or controlling. Do men like that exist?
This was me but im working on being high maintenance
Women don't choose to be a man in the household plus mom. It's because a man refuses to help financially and with a baby, with cooking, cleaning, so woman is doing 5 jobs at once. I heard many stories that a man refuses to even be with a kid for an hour, instead he spends all hours outside, only comes back to sleep. Many men never wanted a child but settled and after the child leaves or tries to spend less and less time at home until finds a woman that would take him in.
I would like to know your view on how Tyler Perry portray women especially diary of a mad black woman
I am literally in the process of breaking up with my boyfriend. We split bills 50/50 but the place we are living is in my name because he don't have the credit to get one on his own. Smh. I am exactly this type of woman and it stops here. Turns out he been cheating, brought the girl to our home and f*** her on our kitchen floor 🙃 I'm done being a nice girl. And it feels so liberating!
“Men do not respect fair or reasonable. Men actually get over on fair and reasonable”. Amen!
Here she is again. Telling it like it is lol 👍🏽
I love you so much listening from the Caribbean Trinidad and Tobago
I am sorry but I watched my mom at the single mother role in a marriage to my step-dad he is a bad provider IMO. I am learning from my mother and trying to learn how to marry up because I don't want to struggle. I want a man to take care of me and have it easy. We are taught in the black community you are a bad person for wanting that when really you're not lol. Also men who call you a gold digger don't have any money or women.
I haven’t even gotten to the video and I know it’s going to be good.
Chloe; I needed this!